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There was something that struck me in high school (I said 'something', not 'someone'). I noticed there was more to beauty than actual appearance. Now don't get me wrong, I'm as shallow as the next guy but there are things that can elevate a woman's beauty in the eye of the one who wants to hold her. Certainly, most people are aware that a good personality or better attitude is beneficial. A good smile, friendly affect, perhaps even the ability to flirt can help. Style couldn't hurt, not that I know much about that. What really struck me one evening, at a Bnei Avika shabbaton, was the absolute power of attraction. There was this cute young lady I had my eye on all weekend. Sat night she sat next to me and from the way she looked at me and her body language, it was obvious she was attracted to me. And the effect was such, that I went from just interested to captivated.Perhaps others have said this or realized this but since I thought of it on my own and this is my site, I will take credit for it. I coined the phrase, "There is nothing more attractive than a woman attracted to you." (I would venture to guess it goes both ways). So when you show interest in a person, take interest in his interests, and your body language, eye contact, head tilt and everything cries out, "I like you, I really, really like you," it amplifies his own positive feelings. So odds are that you're more likely to get a positive response than by playing it cool. Playing it cool, not returning calls in a timely fashion, expecting him to chase all the time, is too much of a pain, entirely frustrating and a turn off. Maybe we had time for that in high school but life is so much simpler when you say what you mean and show how you feel. Take the chance, maybe you'll get hurt but when it finally works (and I believe it WILL increase your chances), it will be all worthwhile.
Guys stop here.
Oh, by the way, did I mention, I'm attracted to you? I just don't know how to show it!
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